Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Romans 12:2
Holding on to the life you used to lead is like a cancer. Consistantly eating away at your spirit. Ever heard the term, “You can’t make a cake and eat it too”, that’s true with God as well. You must leave your old life so God can give you a new one. And that new life, if you stick with it, is more amazing than anything you could ask or think of!